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Stephanie Oiler
Financial Advisor
A private wealth advisory practice of Ameriprise Financial Services, LLC

Important Financial Steps for Women During Divorce

Divorce is one of the most significant transitions a woman may face—emotionally, financially, and personally. It represents both an ending and the beginning of a new chapter, one that often brings unfamiliar financial decisions and responsibilities. During such an overwhelming time, having the right support system is essential.

For many women, divorce also means taking on new financial responsibilities - sometimes for the first time. While this can feel daunting, it is also an opportunity to establish a strong, independent financial foundation that supports long-term financial confidence.

As a Chartered Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®), I work together with women throughout the divorce process to help them understand their financial landscape and make informed decisions. Here are some key foundational steps I help guide my clients through:

Remove your ex-spouses name from your accounts

Ensure all accounts—especially those that report to credit bureaus—reflect updated ownership. Review checking, savings, investment accounts, retirement plans such as 401(k)s, and any jointly titled vehicles. Update registrations so everything is solely in your name.

Establish your own financial identity

If you don’t already have them, open a checking and savings account in your name alone. Apply for a credit card and begin building independent credit, making sure to pay the balance in full each month. This is acritical step in rebuilding financial autonomy.

Notify all insurance companies

Review beneficiary designations across life insurance, retirement accounts, and other policies. Remove your ex-spouse where appropriate. Meet with a financial advisor or insurance professional to make sure you understand your coverage needs. If you plan to use COBRA benefits from your ex-spouse’s employer, contact the insurer to set up coverage promptly.

Get organized

Create a filing system for important financial and legal documents including account statements, tax forms, insurance details, and legal agreements. Develop a realistic budget that reflects your new financial reality. If this feels overwhelming, a financial advisor can help you build a clear and manageable financial plan.

Write a new will

Your legal and financial wishes have changed. Update yourwill and any associated documents to help ensure clarity, protection, andalignment with your new circumstances.

Educate yourself

Before making any major financial decisions, take the time to understand your options. Empower yourself by learning about budgeting, investing, retirement planning, and insurance. A knowledgeable financial advisor can help you gain the clarity and more confidence to move forward intentionally.

With the right guidance and support, you can move through the transitional phase of divorce with more confidence and lay the groundwork for a secure financial future.

Don’t go it alone. If you’re going through a divorce, or preparing for one, I’m here to help you understand your options, protect your interests, and build a plan for what comes next.

Contact me today to schedule a confidential consultation and start building your financial roadmap forward.

Ready to learn more? Get started by requesting a complimentary initial consultation whenever it’s convenient for you.
 

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